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Wedgie Spotlight: Goth Bully

Meet Goth Bully, the Dallas dom making a living giving wedgies.

Wyatt, known in the community as Goth Bully, has been able to pursue domination full-time as of the end of 2020.

“I started out on twitter actually just posting foot fetish content as a way to make some extra cash during COVID. I found the online world of Findom and quickly got into it as it’s an amazing way to dominate and make money, if you know what you’re doing. After I started doing Findom I realized I could incorporate wedgies into my paid virtual domination sessions I’d do online for subs.”

Recreation of a @CarlosRodriDeer artwork, featuring @fabian_g220 on Twitter

“Since around Winter 2020 I’ve been making money that’s substantial enough to pay my bills and living expenses. I always say ‘I make a living giving wedgies’ and I love it! I have experience in being a trained makeup artist and was on a career track to do well for myself in that industry until COVID happened and de-railed that train, but now I have the opportunity to make a living just by showing off fulfilled sexual desires. I’m very happy with that and encourage more people to give it a try!”

Even with their reputation as the bully who’s given wedgies to half the kinky guys in Dallas, Wyatt actually started out as a sub.

“I would sub online for weird men, or very rarely cool men, and the whole time I never really enjoyed it retrospectively. I even subbed for the men I’d meet on Grindr in the beginning (way easier to say “wedgie me?” than “can I wedgie you?”)… it wasn’t fully satisfying. So I decided to try my hand at online domination and loved it.”

Scream (1996) inspired Halloween wedgie featuring @That_kyle420 on Twitter

Besides the underwear itself, Wyatt finds the intersection in power dynamics of helplessness and worship to be the most enjoyable aspect of domination.

“[I enjoy] the humiliation and fantasy of ‘helplessness’ subs have while I’m yanking on something that should be private to them… Nothing quite like being able to explore things so deeply with someone who’s relinquished control and worships the ground you walk on. Also not something to be taken lightly.”

Responsibility as a dom is integral to the experience Wyatt says, naming ‘listening’ as a key skill for good domination.

“Listen to your subs. You have to be a good listener to be a good dom. Also, do not let anyone tell you that you cannot be a dom for any reason. I once had a “dom” tell me I’d never be successful or popular as a dom. I then made $300 off of him and now have 4x as many followers.”

Listening and communication play a role at every step of the process, Wyatt says. Following discussions of appropriate age, limits and boundaries, preparation for a meet-up usually entails being “stocked up on larger size white briefs and [making sure their] BDSM tools are in order.”

“Once the meet happens, it’s usually different every time because I like catering to many different fetishes besides just wedgies [Wyatt says wrestling, bondage, tickling, CBT and oil massages are other kinks they gravitate towards]. Before any wedgies and domination go on I’ll talk with them so it’s more personal and we both understand we’re just people about to do some kinky shit. Then afterwards I am a big advocate for aftercare: head rubbing and praise is my go-to.”

Christmas-themed wedgie pic featuring @fabian_g220 and @Namizo6 on Twitter

To get the best out of their meet-ups, Wyatt usually tries to do something new.

“What makes for a good wedgie meetup to me is fulfilling fantasies and doing something new. If a guy says ‘I’ve always wanted to do that’ or ‘I didn’t even know that was possible,’ all while having a raging boner in his briefs, I know we had fun.”

For the Goth Bully, mutual sexual satisfaction is a must, even when it comes to Grindr hook-ups. Their advice to anyone interested in exploring their sexual interest in wedgies is to “not be ashamed to just tell a guy you’re gonna hookup with ‘Hey, I have this kink’ and see where it takes you… There’s nothing to be ashamed of, you deserve to be just as sexually satisfied as the other person in bed with you.”

On the future for their wedgie platform, Goth Bully says more exciting collaborations and the goal of opening their own adult fetish studio are on the horizon.

“In the future I wanna meet more amazing doms/subs and collaborate to make more fantasies come true and make everyone watching drool. I also possibly wanna expand into studio production and make my own adult fetish studio specifically made for wedgies, by people into wedgies. I have lots of ideas and plans that I call ‘3 year plans’ because 5 years is too long, so I guess we’ll see!”

You can follow Goth Bully on Instagram, Twitter, Onlyfans and JustForFans.

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